Actually what does that mean? haha. I know, complete random topic. The desert does that to people’s heads. Maybe I will turn out like ghandi, as I sit under a tree and meditate on the meaning of life. I have been trying to figure out, especially since I mess it up so much. Character building, I suppose.
But the thing is… I think everyone is fabulous, or has the essence to be fabulous. Some people just are, some people fight it and some haven’t found it. Life throws us a lot of shit, I mean really. Some people say when you get lemons, well – make lemonade. Some say fuck the lemons and run. I say make a bucket full of lemon drop martini’s. Maybe you need to be someone’s fabulous for a while…. while they try to find theirs.
Which brings me to people in your life. I have a handful, that I have been close with through the years, which is strange. I have trouble letting people in my life, for fear they will leave. I know – stupid… But these people, I know if I needed anything- ANYTHING, out of that group, I know they would come and help me in a heartbeat. Unconditional love and friendship, these people are “my fabulous”. That word ( unconditional)has become very powerful for me. To be there no matter what, not judge, but listen – of course, sometimes the occasional bat is thrown over the head, but in spite of that, they would be there. Mostly, in summary – a connection. The universe just brings people into your life and through all the good and bad – like a marriage, they will be there for you. Yesterday I had to decide to either exit a life or try and be their fabulous, but as I was sitting there deciding, I realized it wasn’t a choice. I think there are some people that you know…YOU JUST KNOW, will ALWAYS be in your life, for whatever reason.
I hope that you really think about the fabulous people in your life and tell them so. I don’t think enough cheer is spread and sometimes it just helps knowing you mean something to someone… unconditionally.
So be fabulous, because you never know who’s life you are changing.
anyways, that is my sunday afternoon two cents of crap.
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Love this… be someone’s fabulous.
And I agree that we all build our sangha over time… letting go of the toxic people and nurturing the ones that count… is how we grow best 🙂
Keep being your fabulous self!